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Jeanne
is a person who spent her life caring for other people. In fact,
she raised six kids of her own, and
helped bring up her nephews. She also lived with and cared for
her own mother, who lived to the age of 101! When her mother was
100, Jeanne rounded up the entire family, from around the United
States, and brought them together for a family reunion and birthday
party.
During
her life, Jeanne also manged to care for her husband, Carl, who
she nursed until his death of brain cancer. She has always
taken in family members and friends through-out their health
crises, whether it was the tragic illness of AIDS or something
as benign
as a flu. And, throughout, Jeanne not only kept a laugh ready,
and a smile on her face, but managed to work as a waitress- often
putting in long hours, just to make ends meet. In
July, 2007, Jeanne Shippey was diagnosed with stage four cancer
in her lungs and lymphnodes. Instead of complaining
about her condition, and resigning to the idea that cancer was
going to defeat her, Jeanne went right back to work for her long-time
employer, Bickford's, where she was waitressing- only four days
after her lymph biopsy! With a smile on her face, and a pep in
her step, she spent the day at work letting people know about
the strange lump left in her neck from the experience. She wanted
to make sure her "regulars" got great service during the "Sunday
Brunch Rush"! That's just the kind of person Jeanne is.
Jeanne
was excited to learn that the show is a benefit for The Jimmy
Fund. During the first few weeks of her illness, she discovered
that her own sister Marie also faced a cancer battle. Marie has
been dealing with Breast Cancer and had a tumor removed from
her brain in recent months. Because Jeanne's unaware that the
benefit is in her honor, she's been asking her niece to make
the night
special for Marie. That's how kind Jeannie is. Even though she
is facing her own radiation and chemotherapy, she is still finding
ways to put another person's feelings ahead of her own.
One
of the wonderful traits she has is her ability to keep her sense
of humor through anything. In
fact, when she learned that her niece was returning to Boston to
do a comedy show in her honor, her response was "Make sure
you wait until I'm bald so there's something to laugh about!"
Jeanne
also wants people to be aware that illnesses, like cancer, AIDS,
heart disease aren't something to hide from, and should inspire
conversation. She said she wanted to have people talk to her
about her illness rather than hide from it. That's why she was
looking forward to being "hairless". She said, "That way people
will look at me, know it's cancer, and then I can answer questions."
And,
family is very important to her. She's stood by so many others
when they were very sick, or on death's door. She states, "I
know there are going to be people here for me. I'm seeing it
already. If I'm in the bathroom, and throwing up, people will
be here. It's my turn now, and I see that. I will get through
this because I have everyone who loves me who won't let me go
through this alone."
She's
right. We won't. Maybe you have an Aunt Jeannie you'd like to
help, too. If you do, please join us in our evening at The Comedy
Connecton. Or Donate to The Jimmy
Fund via this website.
Or,
if you don't have an Aunt Jeannie, and want to help out ours,
you can do that too. Donate to our Aunt
Jeanne's care here. Thank
you so much for your support. (Picture coming soon!)
Jeanne
Update- Oct 1- Chemotherapy sessions are going great, and her
tumors are SHRINKING!!
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